Note of clarification

I just realized that I failed to mention in my previous post that Hubby was in there with Sam. I just edited the post to make it a bit more clear, but for some reason I still felt the need to add this because I realize the rest of the post (as well as previous posts) may have been confusing/contradictory. Hubby was trying to put him to bed so that he could work on finding ways to comfort Sam. It didn't work, as you will/did read, but I was not saying that we were in the midst of a crying it out plan.